What triggers you?
C’mon, we all have triggers.
Sets you off.
Makes you want to scream!
Or react in ways that are not the real you.
The calm you.
The nice you.
The perfect you.
Who or what is your trigger?
I just want to share with you a revelation I had this morning while on my yoga mat.
Frustration began to arise in me as I started thinking about a recent personal conflict that I had with my husband the day before.
I became frustrated not regarding the conflict itself, but rather that I was triggered by the my husband again!
Because it’s not that I get triggered often.
It’s that I get triggered by him regularly.
Like same sh*t, different day.
And it’s not that I don’t love him.
Nor is that I don’t admire or respect him.
And it’s not like I don’t trigger him.
I’m sure I do.
I know I do.
But, I get triggered by him over and over again and that’s really frustrating!
Because, like, why am I allowing myself to get triggered by him?
Why can’t I just learn to stop getting triggered by him?
I was really stumped by this for a few moments.
And then it dawned on me that I could be using my husband as an opportunity to practice.
Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding!
“Ladies and Gentleman, I think we have a winner!”
How did I never think of this before?
That my triggers, which I’ve always viewed as a constant obstacles in my life, can actually be viewed as my greatest opportunities.
My GREATEST opportunities.
To practice STOPPING (and then continue on with the S.T.U.C.K. process).
As soon as I get triggered.
Because, in life, we never know when we will get triggered.
It just happens spontaneously.
But, if you know what you get triggered by most, you can acknowledge that trigger as your practice!
Your life practice!
What a revelation.
This will be huge in my life.
And the moment all of this came to mind, it brought a huge smile to my face.
Because I realized that I no longer need try to avoid my triggers or be frustrated by them.
Instead, I can be open to them.
In fact, I somehow feel that I’d like to even seek them out.
Invite them into my life.
Like, C’mon triggers.
And ready to practice!
So, give me your best hit!
And while I have your attention, may I say thank you for existing in my life?
You are a gift to me.
And for that I am grateful.